1. a person who treats another in a condescending or superior manner, especially while appearing to be helpful or kind
Usage: often used critically or negatively

Examples

• She resented the patronizer who constantly explained simple concepts to her as if she were a child.
• The manager was a patronizer, always speaking to junior staff in an overly simplified tone.
• He came across as a patronizer when he praised her effort with the tone one might use for a beginner.
• No one appreciated the patronizer's fake sympathy and condescending remarks.
• The patronizer smiled sweetly while making it clear he thought himself superior.